MIGRAINE

i really hate migraine, no many hw many pills i pop, no matter hw much sleep i had, it just wont go away.......

took a long nap in noon, tot it can make me feel beta, the moment i wake up, feels ok, BUT less than a min, my head feels heavy again, wan to sleep more also cannot, so drag myself up to eat dinner and pop 2 more pills.

it can makes one very pek chey, moody and can get angry very easily

thus no mood to blog anymore....

蔡旻佑_-_我可以

a nice song which i keep listening today, i like the lyrics also... u all might find me slow, cos i know this song came out quite long ago, but i don care, i just like it =D actually he is quite young and i can say talented also cos the lyrics and music r all by him. see the MV, very sweet, very romantic, the guy will accompany the gal to see star, must finish watching the MV woh

歌曲：我可以
作词:林唯 蔡昮佑
作曲:蔡昮佑

编曲:洪信杰

演唱:蔡昮佑

寄没有地址的信
这样的情绪有种距离
你放着谁的歌曲
是怎样的心情
能不能说给我听
雨下得好安静
是不是你偷偷在哭泣
幸福真的不容易
在你的背景有我爱你
我可以陪你去看星星
不用再多说明
我就要和你在一起
我不想又再一次和你分离
我多么想每一次的美丽
是因为你
幸福它真的不容易


希望每个人都可以找到自己辛福的另一半

tiko pek

cant believe the attendant in ot r so despo, today one of my jie mei told me tat we got one new tiko pek in our dept and worst of all, ITS IN ORTHO, damn suay man....

this tiko pek is a new staff, old and chinese..... last time asked for my number once, but i didnt give lah. i basically just ignore and walk off. Then today 2 of my jie meis told me stories abt him...

jie mei (1) told me tat nt only he asked for her number, but also tried to date her out, WTH LOR, go watch movie somemore, faintz, then once he see her, keep talking to her abt nonsense.... even keep looking at her while she is scrubbing. bth

jie mei (2) say tat tiko pek never ask her for her number BUT date her out to go KTV.

this uncle thinks we r 3 yrs old iszit, so easy to cheat ah.. ji dan gao,married liao still come out and try to seduce young gals, uncle ah, u r nt young nor handsome nor have gd qualities, so don try to do it man......And if u dare to ask me one more time, i will make sure the whole ot knows abt ur doings........... btw, don think ur job is safe man, cos sister already noted wat u did to my jie mei's liao. hope u get lost soon man

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Lastly, OT is a place for gossiping, so beta behave ourselves...... including the damn surgeons. like to gossip so much rite, wait till i know who iszit, then u gonna get it from me liao. u can never escape...

library

I hate library..... they die die don let me renew my book, guess someone reserve it....

And bcos they don let me renew and i haven't finish reading it, so i delay in returning it by one week. haha. very noti hor, but tats me lah. hahahaha

Went to return it today. BUT I HAVENT FINISH READING, and so i walked into popular, and the book pop rite in front of me, its still in the "popular book corner" so u can guess hw nice it is, and it has sold 3 millions copy so far. so without further thinking, i grab the book and go to the cashier, till nw i didnt regret paying, cos actual price is $16.69 and i pay it for $13.35. Didnt know there will be discount, but i am LUCKY~

SO NOW, i can take my time to finish reading this lovely book, below is a short description

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John and jenny were young and deeply in love, with a perfect little house and not a care in the world. Then they brought home Marley, a wiggly yellow furball of a puppy. Life would never be the same.

Marley quickly grew into an uncontrollable ninety-seven pound steamroller of a labrador retriever. Expelled from obedience school, even the tranquillisers prescribed by the vet couldn't stop him.

Yet through the chaos and the hilarity he won hearts and remained a steadfast model of devotion to his family, even when they were at their wits' end. Unconditional love, they would learn, comes in many forms.

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A lovely book so i think everyone should read it, but don try to borrow from me. i wont borrow de, unless i trust tat person wont destroy my book.. haha....

~Today is nt my day~

do my noon shift today with all my jie meis (min yee, caili, wen wen) together with PR michael, DARING kheng hua, soft spoken corazon.... damn weird lah, all junior running and only one senior.......

Both ortho OTS r running, so min yee and kheng hua r in ot 8, heard she quarrel with derrick over lead gown, hahaha so funny... think no one can stand her, even neuro surgeon also.... rather finish the case damn fast then let her take over. so funny and cute lah

while i am ordered by mr michael to go to ot 12, haiz, suay till i duno wat to say.... first, i duno hw to operate the machine, duno hw to print out pics.... then stupid needle pricked my hand, god damn pain ok..... so many hrs passed and till nw its still bleeding, haiz, wat happen to my coagualtion man......below is the pic


Then nvm, duno iszit 7th mth or wat, the mayo stand together with the camera head drop on the floor, attendant say its nt him, then who else, no one there, ghost mah.... luckily no breakage or else me and wen wen head will be on the floor tomorrow.
when the camera head drop, i was pushing the patient's trolley into the operating room, just nice camera head drop and while i blank for a moment, the bed went over my foot, DAMN PAIN

by the time everything ended, its time for dinner. yeah~
poor caili got to scrub from 4pm to 8pm then got dinner to eat.

by 8.15, everything is settled and we can relax for awhile, and time to go home. lol, we got a new punch card machine, and GOSH, it nt only looks damn old, and it can fall dwn anytime woh. shall take a pic when no one looks. haha

sister fetch me home today, went to bukit panjang pris home to take food which she brought back from bkk.... nice, my fav food, thanks buddy~

today entry will be dedicated to my beloved~

~TOTO~

UNEXPECTED LE~. HAHA

suddenly realised toto is 8 yrs old already, i adopted him 5 yrs ago when he is being tortured and abandoned by previous owner just because they had a newborn baby, think they r too selfish as dogs wont affect the baby's health, but they r just too ignorant man... they locked him outside in a cage, didnt give him any warmth, or bring him out for any walks, poor little toto......

now although i gave him a home, give him warmth, give him too much food make him so fat nw, but one thing will never change, his abusiveness.... he do not like strangers, very protective of me... i still remember an incident, parents brought him out without me to aunt home, he is ok to everyone, let them hug watsoever, so i am wondering if i am there, will he do the same thing. hmmm.......... but one thing is funny, he is scared when there is alot of ppl, he will always ask me to hug him, he don wan to walk alone.

yesterday after my nite went out with my fren for breakfast, then went to pasir ris pet farm, saw alot of puppies and doggie running around in the dog run, hw wonderful if i can bring my dog there but think my dog will be biting every single dog inside, hahaha... went to another pet shop and found a cute little blue tee and immediate bought it for him liao. toto only have red, grey, green tees but don have blue. since he is a male dog, he ought to have a blue de. hee hee

but toto, jie jie cannot always buy u clothes woh. ur clothes r damn exp, ur 1 tee, i can buy 3 polo tees for myself le.

below r some pics, pardon my dog cos he simply don like to take pic and would look away while i taking pic

this is the pic of my darling wearing it, looks cute le... having tat blur look


side view


caught him sleeping soon, this is pre-sleeping, just lie dwn there make the bed hot first


trying to take a pic, but kena caught *wat r u trying to do*


when he is turning over to his usual sleeping pattern, kena caught again by him * u wan to take, take lah, i don care, i wanna sleep liao


so i happily took 2 shots. lol






To: ToTo, although u r noisy, noti, abusive, like to bark at ppl, like to eat, like ppl to sayang, like ppl to play ball ball with u, like to sleep... BUT jie jie will love u forever de.....

~TIRED~

Was on nite duty yesterday as well as today and tomorrow... feeling so tired, after breakfast, went to took train and took a little nap, luckily i could wake up in time and alight at cck. haha, but once i reach home, bathe and off i go to lala land to recharged, woke up at 4+ cos weather too hot and my darling toto too noisy, duno wat he barking, make me jumped up...... must be those workers painting my block...

had change the title border on my blog, make the wording bigger and as well as add some graphic in it, don wanna make it so fanciful, a simple gal should have a simplicity blog. hee hee, i also amended the text size cos i cant stand small wording, will strain the eyes....

had a gd bath, and home cooked food, now its abt time to prepare and get to work *sob*sob*.........

my burberry bag had dirty stain, duno where i got it from, i was thinking, shit man, so fast dirty, duno can get rid of it or nt, but miracle, i took a wet tissue and wipe it and ITS GONE, so if u got any stubborn stain on ya bag, u can make gd use of it, other than wiping ya face, body, now u can clean stain =D

yeah, my jeans from mango tat i send for alteration is back in my arms again... got a new pair of jeans and shoes liao....


Hope Today is NT a busy day, then i can rest earlier

如果那个男人真的爱你…

女人总会问男人你爱我么，只是因为女人对于爱太需要。如果一个男人真的爱你，他不会不耐烦，不会说你应该成熟些了……看看下面的几条，问问自己，那个男人还爱你么，如果回答是no，即使不舍得也要学会走开……

第一条: 如果一个男人真的爱你，他的手机会为你24小时开机，在你最需要他的时候可以随时找到他，因为他爱你，所以会时时担心你。
　　
第二条: 如果一个男人真的爱你，他会很自豪的告诉他的朋友与家人你是他最爱的女人，当然并不是时时挂在嘴上，而是用一种行动去告诉别人，你是他最爱的女人！因为有了你他觉得很骄傲，无论你是不是真的很优秀。

第三条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他会把除了工作之外的很多时间都给你，当然会偶尔和朋友去聚会，因为他想时时刻刻都看见你。
　　
第四条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他会毫不吝啬的给你物质上的付出（我并不是说所有的女孩子都应该物质化，这种付出是他心甘情愿的）因为他觉得他所有辛苦的努力就是为了让你过上很幸福的生活，他爱你，不想让你过的那么艰苦。　　

第五条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他绝对不会骂你，在你很任性的时候任你发泄，当你任性过去的时候，会很委屈的说：“老婆，我又作错什么了？你可以告诉我，我一定改，千万不要生气，那样会把身体气坏的”。　　

第六条：如果一个男人真的爱你，你会发现你和他在一起后，不经意间发现你总有很多穿不完的衣服，因为他总是看见漂亮的东西就买给你。

第七条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他就不在乎陪你逛街会浪费他多少出去自由的机会，因为他甘愿失去那种所谓的自由。　　

第八条：如果一个男人真的爱你，无论你们在一起多久，都会陪你一起爬山，看海，看星星，看日落，因为他知道你渴望这样的浪漫。
　　
第九条： 如果一个男人真的爱你，他绝对不会嚷嚷着叫你去减肥，但是这个时候你自己一定要去健康减肥，因为苗条的女人确实可以叫人赏心悦目。因为你的健康是他最关心的。
　　
第十条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他不会留恋与网络与别的小妹眉甜言蜜语，因为对你他都有说不完的爱，哪有那心思和别人废话。　

第十一条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他不会还和前女友有联系。　

第十二条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他在每天很辛苦的工作回到家的时候，会抱着你说“老婆，我回来了”他爱你，他绝对不会把不快乐带给你！　

第十三条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他会在清晨上班的时候，亲吻你的眼睛，满足的说：宝贝，我上班去了！” 　

第十四条: 如果一个男人真的爱你，他绝对不会忍心背叛你，无论出于什么样的动机。因为在他眼里，你是最美的，即便你不是。　
　
第十五条：如果一个男人真的爱你，在你故意说要离开的时候，撒娇的不和你分开，而在你真的想离开的时候，就会放你走，即便他真的不愿意放手。因为他爱你，只希望你幸福。　

第十六条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他绝对不会以事业忙为借口而推脱你。

第十七条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他绝对不会一次次把你推向那冰冷的手术台，更不会让你一个人孤孤单单的去走向那冰冷的世界，他会郑重的说：“把我们的宝贝生下来吧！” 　　

第十八条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他会象爱他家人那样爱你的家人，也会尊重你的亲人和朋友。
　　
第十九条：如果一个男人真的爱你，他不会不耐烦，不会说你应该成熟些了……

The GEMINI Woman

Though she managed to pick plenty of beautiful rushes as the boat glided by, there was always a more lovely one that she couldn't reach. "The prettiest are always further!" she said at last, with a sigh at the obstinacy of the rushes in growing so far off.

Have you always secretly thought Brigham Young had a sensational idea when he advocated several wives for one man? Do you inwardly envy the Eastern potentates with their harems? You needn't resign yourself to romantic Walter Mitty daydreams. Just marry a Gemini girl. That way, you'll be guaranteed at least two different wives, and on occasional weekends, as many as three or four.

Naturally, there's a small catch. The difference between a girl born under the sign of the twins and a harem is her apparent lack of interest in earthy passion. It's hard to get her to settle down long enough to take passion or anything else very seriously. Her mind is always traveling, and she keeps up a pretty good running commentary simultane–ously. But look a little deeper. Somewhere, hidden among the several women who make up one Gemini female, is a romantic one-one who is capable of intense passion, if you can manage to make the mental, spiritual and physical blending complete. How to develop her and still enjoy all the other women bottled up inside the Geminian person–ality may create a problem. I can tell you that one Gemini girl equals several women. But I'm afraid it's up to you to delve into the advanced algebra of sorting them out. Each individual case is different.

Her age will be an important clue to what you can expect, because until she matures, romance is only a game to her. She can be fickle and unpredictable to an incredible degree. First she'll be ecstatically carried away by your smile and your voice, even the way you walk. Then she'll reverse her ecstasy and criticize everything from your socks to your haircut, and she usually does it with such clever, sharp sarcasm, you may need iodine for your wounds. Now, don't let this put you out of the market for a Gemini woman. Remember you're getting at least two for one, and that's indisputably a bargain.

Mercury females aren't as heartless as they seem to be 'at times. Their active imaginations create many fantasies. Romance is the easiest way they can express them, and Geminis have at least twice as much to express as other women. A Gemini man can be a producer, a singer, a sailor, a lawyer, an actor, a salesman and the chairman of a few boards of directors all at once-and express himself ad infinitum. But a woman can't very well swing all that, or she would be considered a little freakish. Not that Mercury girls don't pursue careers. They do. Almost every last one of them. But under the existing conditions of society, a career still doesn't offer her as many opportunities as romance to try out her myriad theories and practice her emotional gymnastics.

The Gemini girl needs your pity, not your anger. It's painfully difficult for her to really commit herself to one person at a time. While she's being impressed with a man's mental abilities and his intelligent wit, another side of her is noticing his antipathy toward the arts or his lack of response to music and poetry. When she finds someone who's appropriately creative, who's at home at the ballet or in the literary world, the duality pops up again. Right in the middle of a stroll through the museum, her other self will begin to wonder if he's practical enough to make a living or if he has enough common sense to know where he's going. I trust you're beginning to have a more sympa–thetic understanding of the conflicts peculiar to those born in June.

Give her credit. Shell usually manage to keep her be–wilderment at her own complex character to herself, and not burden you with it. She's a lively and gay companion. Most of the time (when the mood is on the up-swing), she'll sparkle with a vivacious personality, amuse you with her clever, witty remarks, and converse intelligently about almost any subject under the sun. She enjoys all the senti–mental gestures of romance and has no trouble making conquests. No woman you've ever met will delight you with more imaginative ways of loving you and such appeal–ing charm. She can flutter her lashes with delicate femi–ninity, but she's not at all helpless when it comes to earning her own living. A Gemini woman can play the giddy party girl to perfection, flattering a helpless, trapped male right out of his mind and his bank book. But she can smoothly change into a demure and adoring housewife, from which she can quickly switch into a serious intellectual who studies the great philosophers and talks about politics or poetry brilliantly, then suddenly turn into a bundle of raw emotion, full of nerves, tears and fears. She's certainly not stuffy or monotonous.

If you think this is an exaggeration, remember the late Marilyn Monroe. Every man she ever knew, from Carl Sandburg to her hairdresser, saw her as a totally different person than the other men who thought they knew her, too. Place a photograph of her as the seductive love god–dess next to a picture of her wearing horn-rimmed glasses, a babushka and no make up, seriously intent on a lecture about Russian authors. Then add a third and fourth shot of her in a gingham apron, learning to bake a cheese soume for a husband whose athletic talents and warm, human qualities she worshiped-and walking sedately beside an–other husband whose intellectual abilities and literary talent she deeply respected and admired. Add two more photos. One showing her with a tear-stained face, full of longing, after losing her third baby-another shot of her in a bikini, gaily laughing with a handsome French movie star on the Riviera. These are not posed pictures. They were snapped when she wasn't even looking, let alone seeking publicity. It's a perfect example of the eye of the camera exposing all the women contained in one Gemini female, who suc–cessfully kept her multiple nature hidden behind the image she chose to project the most frequently.

Your Mercury-ruled girl longs to be "really, truly in love," but it keeps eluding her. She yearns for motherhood, but often that eludes her, too. She finds a different perfec–tion in each man she meets, as she restlessly searches for the one man who has all the qualities she needs for happiness.

You'll find her a great pal. The Mercury girl will go along with you on anything from scuba diving to speed racing-bicycling or badminton. She'll show an interest in all the outdoor sports, and still manage to look as soft and feminine as a powder puff, with a mind as fast as a whip. The Geminian sharp mentality will show clearly when her curiosity is excited by any new subject. Her Mercurial mind will let her see all the intricacies of your creative ideas, and she'll probably throw in a few promotional schemes of her own. As long as you don't demand con–sistency from her, she'll be completely fascinating.

It's only fair to warn you that this girl can sincerely believe she's in love, and find other men attractive at the same time. Unless she's near you all the time, she can forget you quicker than a woman born under any other Sun sign. It's her nature to accept change, even seek it. Until she leams to control her devoted courtship of con–stant activity, neglecting to cultivate patience and stability, the Gemini female can make quite a mess of her life- and yours. Fortunately for the men in love with them, most Geminian women settle down into a deeper understanding of their own natures before it's too late.

Once you've proposed to her and she's accepted, you can pity all those men who are doomed to a life of monogamy with just one woman. You'll have several wives when you marry your Gemini.

Wife Number One will be able to adjust to anything you require of her. If you require faithfulness, she can manage that, too, providing you're interesting enough to have won her real love. I refer to that blending of mental, spiritual and physical compatibility, with the physical part added last, like the paprika, after the other three are well mixed. This wife will never sulk if you take a new job out of town. With her ingenuity, taste and sense of color, she can make a new home look lovely with a light touch of her dainty, clever hand. Besides, she'll love the adventure, and there will be no nagging reproaches that you're gambling with future security. The excitement of new horizons inter–ests her more. She may have a surprisingly good head for business and she'll back all your original ideas. You can count on her to go to work if you need extra income, and she'll be pretty practical about how to spend it. Although she may give an outward impression of flightiness, she's not as nighty as she appears. She's a thinker, and a very clever one, underneath all the bright small talk.

Wife Number Two will be moody. You might just as well expect it. She'll have her satirical moments when she can be cynical and flippant, by turns. At the same time, she'll challenge you mentally. But a man needs to be stimu–lated, doesn't he? Go ahead, top her in an intellectual argument. (It's what she secretly wants anyway.) This wife won't be easily shocked by life or have any preconceived prejudices. She may decide to march in a protest parade or join a sit-in and forget to come home until midnight. What if you do have to join the fellows while she's out making a speech or going to night school to pick up a few extra credits? At least she probably won't hound you with • suspicious questions about who you were with, where you were, and what you were doing. Don't question her, either. You're on the honor system. So is she. This one is a highly independent individualist.

Wife Number Three will be bored and depressed with housekeeping routines. The beds will be unmade and the dishes will stand in the sink while she daydreams, reads or writes the outline for a play. She may serve you a can of beans for 'dinner without even bothering to open the can. But you can have the most soul-satisfying conversations with her into the wee, small hours. She'll sympathize with your frustrations at the way life has treated you. She'll satisfy both your emotional and your intellectual cravings, be curious about your opinion of Buddhism and excited about your attempts to write a song. In short, she's pretty good company. She'll be very affectionate, too, since you haven't bugged her about dusting and baking and all that nonsense. This wife may make a mess of the checkbook now and then. But if you suggest a sudden camping trip or a few days in Las Vegas, she'll enthusiastically pack her suitcase without a bunch of silly objections, like how it's going to affect the budget or who will feed the Siamese cat and what if the bathtub leaks while you're gone.

Wife Number Four will be a gay and laughing mother. She won't let the children restrict her, because she'll prob–ably have too many projects going constantly to smother them with over-protectiveness. They'll imitate her inde–pendence and benefit by it. If anyone asks her how much time she spends with them, she'll probably answer, "In our family, it's not a matter of how much time. It's a matter of how much love." And she'll be right. The children may not always obey her, because she's inclined to be emphatic one day, then melt and give in the next, but the youngsters will love their long talks with her. Her imagination will match theirs, and they'll amuse each other. She'll probably be a permissive mother, but she'll worry about scholastic averages, and she'll probably insist on good grades. They won't get by without doing their homework if she can help it, although they may get by without hanging up their clothes.

Wife Number Five will be a beautiful hostess, an expert at the whole candlelight, flowers and sterling silver routine. You can bring anyone, from your boss to the Governor home to dinner, and she'll be so gracious and charming, they'll never want to leave. Shell organize her life efficiently and effortlessly, dress like a fashion model and love the theater. You can take her to art galleries and concerts- she'll be right at home in any kind of society. Everyone will stare at you enviously and wonder who the glamorous woman is who hangs on your arm so sweetly. She'll be romantic and ultra-feminine, maybe even write you a poem for your birthday. You'll want to buy her velvet dressing gowns and expensive perfumes, because her gracious style will make you feel like a country squire. If you mention a trip to Europe, her eyes will sparkle. She's a sophisticate.

Well, there you are. I may have missed a few girls in your Gemini harem. Every husband in town will be green with envy when they see you with a different woman every day. If they ask you how you get away with it, play it cool. Polygamy is against the law, you know.

Your Gemini woman will never take a train when she can fly. She'll never be silent when she can speak. She'll never turn away when she can help. And she'll never walk when she can run. Her mind is full of so many thoughts and her heart is full of so many hopes, she may seem to need a computer to sort it all out. Or does she just need someone who can run beside her and toss dreams with her-from here to tomorrow? If you're that man, she doesn't dare look over her shoulder to see if you're near. Some deep, unexplained fear within her keeps her from ever looking back. When you finally match her speed, get her to slow down to your pace. You can do it, if you hold her hand tightly and never let it go. Though Mercurial north winds drive her on, secretly she may long to rest awhile more than you know. Do hurry and try to reach her. She needs you.

How to Recognize GEMINI

"I wish you woudn't keep appearing And vanishing so suddenly. You make one quite giddy!" This time it vanished quite slowly, beginning with the end of the tail, and ending with the grin, which remained for some time after the rest of it had gone.

If there are times when a Gemini person makes you think you're seeing double, don't run out and change your glasses. Just remember that Gemini is the sign of the twins, and there are two distinct sides to his changeable personality. Now you see it, now you don't. Was it love you thought you caught fleetingly on those mobile features? Hate? Ecstasy? Intelligence? Idealism? Sorrow? Joy? The mercurial changes of a Gemini's expression are as fasci–nating to watch as the psychedelic lights in a discotheque. It's hard to tell where reality ends and illusion begins. They blend-then they separate.

Knowing where to look for this versatile creature re–quires a little forethought. He may be one place today and somewhere else tomorrow. Suddenly, too. A Gemini can change his clothes, his job, his love life or his residence as fast as he changes his mind, and that's pretty fast. Find–ing a good example to study may keep you hopping. You could try a bookstore. He's a browser, because he can get the gist of the contents in a brief scanning of the pages. (It's no accident that John F. Kennedy was a speed reader.) Mercury people also have that nasty habit of reading the last page first. If you know a Gemini who has ever read a book from beginning to end without getting bored halfway through, send him to the Smithsonian as a curio (or check his natal chart to see if he has Taurus, Capricorn or one of the more persistent signs on the ascendant). Geminis like to skip back and forth in a book, a pattern of action they also prefer when it comes to things other than reading.

You're sure to find a Gemini or two skimming through the halls and matching wits with people in a radio station, a public relations firm, a publishing house, a telephone an- . swering service, an auto showroom or an advertising agency-if you can catch one between appointments. - When you've found this quicksilver person, study him care–fully, even if you do get exhausted following him around. The first thing you'll notice is a nervous energy that fairly snaps, crackles and pops in the air around him. If he has a Scorpio, Libra, Cancer or Capricorn moon, he may not vibrate with so much obvious crackle, but the snap and pop are latent, and you'll sense their presence under the influence of the other planetary positions. An occasional Gemini will speak slowly, but most of them talk fast. All of them listen fast.

Man or woman, Gemini is impatient with conservative stick-in-the-muds, or with people who can't make up their minds where they stand on particular issues. Gemini knows where he stands, at least for the moment.

Unless there's a conflicting ascendant, the Gemini build is generally slender, agile and taller than average. Many of them have small, sharp features, as if they were cut in a cameo. You'll find some with brown eyes, of course, but the majority of those ruled by Mercury will have beautiful, crystal-clear hazel, blue, green or gray eyes that twinkle and dart here and there. Geminis never rest their eyes on one object for more than a few seconds. In fact, their alert, quick-moving eyes are often the easiest way to recognize them. The complexion tends to be rather pale, yet they usually tan easily, and that's the way to spot them in the summer. (In the winter, they often have wind bums from swooping down a ski slope.)

There's an eagerness about Geminis, an immediate, sym–pathetic friendliness, and unusually quick, but graceful movements. The hair can be light or dark or both-like, streaked. Twins, remember? The nose is likely to be long and straight or dainty-in either case, probably well formed. There's frequently a receding hairline in the men (from all that activity in the brain, perhaps), and both sexes normally have rather high foreheads.

It's usually a mistake to try to pin Geminis down to either one place or one idea. It's always a mistake to challenge them to a battle of wits, because they can talk them–selves in and out of situations with the greatest ease. They think fast on their feet (or in any other position); they can be sharply satirical, and they're more clever than al–most anybody. Some Mercury people take a mischievous delight in disconcerting slower minds with their lightning fast mental processes. How would you like to get into an argument with Gemini Bob Hope?

A June person will sometimes appear to light near you, like an inquisitive bird, survey the scene with excited curiosity, then dart off in a different direction almost before you can say hello. I often join a Gemini friend in Lindy's for cheesecake and some casual conversation. He's thirty-five to forty years old, but he looks like a college student, which is typical of Gemini's ageless appearance. For a while well talk pleasantly, interrupting each other and easily bouncing from one topic to another. Then I'll search in my purse for a compact or a pencil, look up-and like some disappearing artist in a magic act, my Gemini friend has vanished into thin air, taking the check with him. (The more unevolved types use this agility to leave you with the check.) When he pulls one of those fast dissolves, I glance around the room anxiously, and suddenly, there he is-making a phone call or waving to me gaily as he skips out the door to who-knows-where.

This particular Gemini was recently engaged to a won–derful Aquarian girl (if anyone can cope with an elusive Gemini, it's an Aquarian), and a week before the wedding, five would get you twenty anywhere on Broadway that he would find a way to slip out of the noose-that somehow, he wouldn't make it to the church on time. But he did. Geminis can surprise you. Especially when they're in love.

One of my favorite Geminians is a Mercury woman who-typically-runs Belles Limited, a New York answer–ing service. The play. The Bells Are Ringing, was based on her life. Possibly due to being glued to the telephone twenty hours a day, she's not quite as light on her feet as she was when she used to brighten Billy Rose's chorus line. You couldn't call her agile, since she seldom gets a chance to leave her switchboard, but still she gives the impression of flying around, even when she's immobile. Like most Gemini females, she has an extremely pretty, interesting face, with intelligence stamped on every feature, and her quick Mercury hands flutter in the air like lively birds.

Using more charm and wit than the law allows, she cheerfully solves everyone's problems in the twinkling-of one of her clear, blue eyes. I've watched this woman

The secret is in the Geminian duality. They can do two. things at once with less effort than it takes most of us to do one. Mercury women often iron, feed the baby and talk on the phone at the same time. Some people swear that all Geminis were born with a phone in each hand.

Any kind of routine can make a typical Geminian feel like a droopy bird in a cage with his wings clipped. These people resent drudgery and monotony almost fiercely. Usually, they aren't the most punctual souls in the world (unless they happen to have a Virgo ascendant, in which case they become human alarm clocks). The typical Gemini, however, always arrives late, not because he for–gets the time, but because something caught his interest on the way and sidetracked him. The restless Mercurial nature demands constant excitement and change or the spirit be–comes dejected and morose.

If you have a Mercury friend, you've probably already experienced a common Gemini habit that can be so annoy–ing it can give you ulcers. He'll suggest some activity to you, like dropping over to his apartment (it will seldom be a house-too permanent), catching an old Humphrey Bo-gart film with an Our Gang comedy (double feature, naturally-he doesn't play singles), driving out to a miniature golf range to practice a little putting or stopping in Jack Dempsey's for a few Bloody Marys. You're tired and you're on the way home. You thank him anyway, but ask for a rain check. The Gemini argues with you. Con–vincingly. He turns on those baby blues (or greens or browns) and weaves a cocoon of charm around you. He talks so fast and his smile is so persuasive that, after a while, you give in. You'll go. He has a few errands to run, so he says he'll meet you on the comer in about an hour. That you didn't expect so you start to back out, but he turns on his technique again, and you finally agree to meet him. It's a real drag, killing the hour, and besides, your feet hurt, but you manage to do it, and you show up on the comer at the appointed time. Good old Jim is a half hour late and a little out of breath when he gets there. Guess what? He's changed his mind. He's really beat. He's decided to call it a day, hit the sack-and make the scene tomorrow night. You don't mind, do you? Only a Gemini could avoid a sock in the jaw at that point. But he does. You for–give him, and what's really ridiculous is that you'll actually meet him the next night, like you had good sense or some–thing. You've only yourself to blame for succumbing to the irresistible Gemini sales pitch. If you get stood up again the following evening, you have it coming. It serves you right for letting him sweet talk you.

There's a deep-seated need in all June people to dis–guise their true motives. Like the Pisces they feel a com–pulsion to behave in a way exactly opposite to their real de–sires. But this amazing Gemini versatility and facility of speech makes them terrific politicians, not to mention ex–perts in the field of human relationships. A Gemini knows how to swerve you from your most stubbornly held con–victions. He can twist you like a pretzel with his mental karate, get you to agree with him and love him for doing it to you. But if trouble develops, he knows instinctively just where the skeletons are buried in your closet, and he can use his fast mind and clever tongue to rattle those bones dangerously.

There's a strange thing about Geminis and writing. The Sun sign itself rules writing. Therefore, practically every Mercury man or woman can turn a clever phrase and string words together intelligently. You'll find whole slews of them writing speeches, commercials, documentaries, plays and books. But the books will be novels, textbooks, nonfiction or biographies. Very seldom will you find the Geminian writing his own life story. And it's extremely rare to find one who likes to write personal letters. The typical Gemini hates to answer correspondence. He'll procrastinate for weeks.

It may seem to be contradictory at first, but the reason is clear, when you realize the reluctance of Mercury people to be pinned down to an opinion. They hesitate to put their thoughts on paper because they instinctively know that what they believe today, they may not believe tomorrow- and they don't want to be committed in writing. Few Geminis need to be warned by their attorneys to "Say it, don't write it." They were born with that defense mech–anism. There are an astonishing number of Gemini authors who choose to use a pseudonym-and even the average Geminian will eventually find some reason to adopt an alias -either a complete change-a different spelling, or at the very least, a nickname. The rule is so consistent, you can win a nice nest egg betting on it with all the Geminis you know.

Almost every Gemini speaks, understands or reads more than one language and French is the favorite. One way or another, the Gemini will triumph with words. He cut his teeth on Webster's Unabridged. He can sell ice cubes to an Eskimo or dreams to a pessimist. If you happen to catch him in some dodge, he can change the subject so fast, and direct the conversation away from himself so adroitly, that the whole affair ends with you on the carpet instead of him. Sometimes the Mercury tendency to fool people can lead to dishonesty or criminal activity, but not as often as you've been led to believe. Although his talents can tempt an occasional Gemini to live in a web of lies and decep–tion, most of them are too idealistic for a life of crime. Still it must be admitted Mercury gives them superior equip–ment for success in that field-and they can be brilliant con artists if they choose. With their manual dexterity, if they pick a pocket, forge a check or counterfeit a sawbuck, at least they're neat about it and seldom get caught.

If you come across a smooth-talking used car salesman who was born in June, and he tells you the blue Studebaker had just one former owner-a little old lady who drove it only to church every Sunday morning-you'd be wise to ask the name of the church and check with the little old lady (unless she's a Gemini, too). But seriously, unless the afflictions and planetary positions in the natal chart are marked, the majority of Geminis are honest-and some of them are even painfully honest to a fault. They seem to go from one extreme to another. Yet, they all-petty thief- con man-and upstanding citizen alike-will be unable to resist putting a light coat of varnish on a story at times. Of course, that's not lying. That's imagination.

As promoters, all Mercury people are absolutely superb. They have no equal, not even Aries. The promotions can be strictly aboveboard, but few people are strong enough to outlast the combination of charm and sharp intellect Gemini dishes out, and that alone may be taking unfair advantage. When a Gemini tackles a worthwhile project- to sell something mankind deeply needs and wants, the angels smile on him, and we can thank those born under this Sun sign for many great and lasting improvements which have benefited all of us. At heart, every Mercury-ruled person is a salesman, even the Gemini Jesuit priests and Protestant missionaries. Take two entirely divergent examples which prove it. Gemini John F. Kennedy sold the whole world a shining ideal-and Gemini Michael Todd sold Broadway a dream or two. Each in his own way, a Mercury child. Both the world and Broadway are notori–ously jaded and hard to sell.

Geminis need to rest their busy brains with twice as much sleep as anyone else. Unfortunately, since they're so susceptible to insomnia, they rarely get enough. Neverthe–less, they should try hard to achieve rest, rest and more rest, to heal those jangled nerves and renew the over-active brain cells, because nervous exhaustion is a constant threat. Gobs of fresh, unpolluted air and barrels of bright sunshine are also necessities to keep them out of hospitals. A lack of any of these, plus suppression of activity-can make Geminis susceptible to accidents and infections involving the shoulders, arms, hands and fingers. The lungs may be weak, also the intestines. Problems involving the feet, back, elimination, arthritis, rheumatism and migraine headaches are always a possibility for the Mercury people who neglect their health. The odd thing is that the Gemini can suffer an emotional breakdown more easily from boredom and confinement than from over-activity.

Deep inside his searching, impatient nature, the Gemini seeks an ideal, and his chief problem is in recognizing what it is. It could be anything, since his imagination knows no boundaries. Money, fame, wealth, love and career are never quite enough. Mercury calls Gemini higher and higher-on and on-above and beyond, with a seductive promise of something always just a little better. The grass always looks greener just across the road. The sky is bluer over another ocean. The star* shine brighter in a different place. What is it he seeks? Perhaps some hidden, undiscovered continent within himself. Gemini is the men–tal explorer.

His eyes are sharp and his talents are multiple. He has a brilliant humor, tact, diplomacy and adroitness-yet he lacks persistence and patience. He throws away the precious old too quickly for the untried new, then lives to regret the instant disposal. In spite of all the people around him, he shares his deepest emotions only with his one constant companion-his other twin self. The air is his element and his real home. He's a stranger to earth.

Gemini can charm a bird right out of its tree and give it five new songs to sing. But the restless Mercurial mind can too easily overlook the bluebird of happiness waiting wist–fully year after year in his own backyard. He wears clear yellows, greens and blues, silver and gray-and his moods reflect his glittering aquamarine jewel. He has the light touch, echoed in the delicate fragrance of the lily-of-the-valley, and he has breathed the fresh promise of the greenest ferns in the deepest part of the forest. But the cold metal of Mercury divides Gemini with twin desires, until he stops-and waits-and listens-to his own heart–beat

something meaningful

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。

第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人.

首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉；因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；你最爱的，往往没有选择你；最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。当一个人不爱你要离开你，你要问自己还爱不爱他，如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？爱不是占有，你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好，也爱他的坏：爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，万一变不成就不爱他了。真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；分开是一种必然的考验，如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，真爱是不会变成怨恨的。你呢？找到了第几个？茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？

Piggy terms....

The other names for pigs are hogs and swine.

Wild pigs live in social groups called sounders.

A male pig is called a boar.

A female pig is known as a sow.

Piglets are baby pigs.

‘Pig-headed’ is a term used to describe someone who is very stubborn and unreasonable.

Pigswill is waste food fed to pigs. When you describe the food as pigswill, you are criticising it because of its poor quality.

‘Pig out’ is used when someone eats an enormous amount at one meal. The truth is, by nature, pigs do not over eat. In farms, pigs are stuffed with specially-planned diets to ensure fast growth.

A pigsty is an enclosed area on a farm where pigs are kept. It also refers to a very untidy and dirty house or room.

You feel ‘pigged off’ when you are angry or unhappy.

blogging

After blogging so long in friendster, gonna shift it over here..... hee

more user friendly, can edit my template etc, feels so much beta...

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