Monday, September 15, 2008

~marriage~

i nearly fainted when i know so many of my frenz and colleagues r either married or going to get married

congrats to them woh

oct, nov, dec each got one wedding to attend... faintz... but definitely will feel happy for them de.. and excited to see them wearing their gown

duno y i always will have goose-bumps when i saw the couple walking dwn the aisle, its so touching...

quoted from caili blog :幸福的婚姻 to marry a gd husband and have obedient kids doesnt mean its fortunate
even if u have a gd husband may nt mean u will be very xinfu woh. there r too many things to ponder, u may be very happy to be with each other, to do things together, but deep dwn, does he/she really love u... think abt it..
kids will only tied u down to everything u do,
when u go shopping,
when u go to work,
when u go for holiday
when u do errands for ppl
when u 2 wanna get some sweet moments together
when u wan to sleep peacefully
when u wanna save money
when u go to crowded area with a pram
when u wanna cook a meal in peace
when nobody wans to take care of the baby

tats y i decided nt to have a kid, i wanna have more time and i seriously irks to hear baby crying, cannot stand it. it will make me very annoying, and i cannot stand mother who will just sit one side and let their kids cry for all they can...

so kids is a NO NO for me, and i don care if ppl will say next time when i am old, who will take care of me.
no kids = no worries (for me)
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~i can say i am very xinfu. keke~
but my temper is bad... keke